“Trans-age” pedophile defends himself by claiming that he’s trapped in a nine-year-old’s body

By Jonathon Van Maren

Ideas have consequences—that might be cliché, but it’s about time our culture remembered that. The transgender phenomenon, which has already spawned ludicrously serious conversations about whether or not “trans-race” is a thing, with white lady Rachel Dolezal claiming to be black, and “trans-age” having some insist that they are not the age that they actually are. This sort of thing used to be called a “mid-life crisis,” but now it means that a Toronto guy named Paul in his fifties actually managed to find “adoptive parents” after abandoning his wife and seven kids—and now lives as a “six-year-old girl” named Stefonknee. And the media treated Paul’s delusions with sympathy, if not support:

Stefonknee says her ‘adoptive’ family, which consists of an older couple and their children and young grandchildren, are completely accepting of her identifying as a little girl. She says she’s living as a six-year-old girl because it’s something she could never do when was in grade school.

‘I can’t deny I was married. I can’t deny I have children,’ she says in the video. ‘But I’ve moved forward now and I’ve gone back to being a child. I don’t want to be an adult right now.’ 

Stefonknee further adds: ‘I have a mommy and a daddy – an adopted mommy and daddy – who are totally comfortable with me being a little girl. And their children and their grandchildren are totally supportive.’

She says she previously lived as an eight-year-old girl, until the couple’s granddaughter asked her to be the younger sister instead. ‘A year ago I was eight and she was seven. And she said to me: “I want you to be the little sister, so I’ll be nine.” I said: “Well, I don’t mind going to six.” So I’ve been six ever since.’

I’m not sure which part of that story is the most insane—the fact that Paul’s claims are being taken seriously, the complete disregard for the real children in this story, which happen to be those this fifty-two-year-old former Catholic abandoned, the lack of sympathy for Paul’s poor wife, who has to raise children while her husband pretends to be a little girl, the fact that there are people out there who are willing to allow their own children to play with a middle-aged delusional dude in drag, or that there were actually people out there willing to allow Paul to move in with them and play the “mommy and daddy.”

Maybe some people find the “trans-age” garbage to be harmless, but it has an even darker and even uglier side than a man abandoning his family and his responsibilities. From The Daily Wire a few days ago:

A Chicago man accused of sexually assaulting two six-year-olds and an eight-year-old on repeated occasions, told police officers that he’s really “a 9-year-old trapped in an adult’s body,” prosecutors revealed on Wednesday.

Thirty-eight-year-old Joseph Roman is charged with repeated predatory criminal sexual assault. The numerous attacks began in 2015 and continued until earlier this month.

Roman has reportedly confessed to some of the attacks to authorities. His victims were the daughters of his friends.

I’m not going to provide any additional details of this pedophile’s crimes, but suffice it to say that they are the sort of thing that keep parents up at night. Again: Ideas have consequences, and when we accept that people can live out their fantasies regardless of physical reality, we have to accept that some of those fantasies are going be darker and more dangerous than others. And, as usual, the children end up getting hurt.


For anyone interested, my book on The Culture War, which analyzes the journey our culture has taken from the way it was to the way it is and examines the Sexual Revolution, hook-up culture, the rise of the porn plague, abortion, commodity culture, euthanasia, and the gay rights movement, is available for sale here.

21 thoughts on ““Trans-age” pedophile defends himself by claiming that he’s trapped in a nine-year-old’s body

  1. Mike says:

    I think you made a mistake in your title: The pedophile doesn’t claim he’s “trapped in a nine year old’s body”, but that he’s a nine year old trapped in a grown man’s body.

    Another terrific yet disturbing article. Keep up the great work!

  2. Marie says:

    I would think Stefonknee’s adoptive family should be required to pay child support for the 7 kids abandoned. That might curtail some of this insanity.

    • mathenodaweirdo says:

      Thats killing someone because of a mental illness.. and I don’t believe in that. Pedos should be locked up in mental facilities.

  3. Robert says:

    What the hell is this world gone to?! Sure, you know what, I’m gonna be a pansexual black Jewish Korean 5 year old car from now on!
    Christ this is how it all ends.

  4. Ticah says:

    Why should he be allowed to get away with it…even if he’s trapped in his nine year old body does it justify the fact that he can just sleep around with small kids….that’s absurd

  5. Shahna says:

    There is nothing normal or OK with this! This is a serious mental illness and needs to be treated as so!! Age is a fact and can’t be changed! These fu**** up people are trying to justify crimes on children… they need to have the same things done to them that they do to children and then DIE!

  6. Nancy says:

    This perverted twisted sick ADULT MAN needs Jesus and some deep counseling help or be thrown in jail before he damages an innocent child’s life. Leave it to the lunatic left wing radicals to support this nonsense.

  7. myn0ze says:

    Not sure if this um, individual should be thrown in jail or in a psychiatric hospital. Either way, they shouldn’t let him out for…well probably EVER.

  8. Cai says:

    “trans age is NOT recognized by the trans community. i am a trans man and an age regressor. “age regression” is when you mentally switch to an age that is younger than your physical age. this is primarily used as a coping mechanism for people with childhood trauma who, in my case, may feel that their childhood was not really lived due to the trauma they faced. trans age is harmful to the trans community and the lgbt community as a whole. honestly, im not sure if you can be an age regressor without trauma, but thats a different topic for another day. anyone who is reading this who may be thinking that they may be trans age or are just trying to read up on it, every other trans person has agreed that this terminology is harmful to us and the lgbt community- please use the term “age regression” instead. i would also recommend seeing a therapist about the age regression so you can better find ways to safely regress and how you can do it in a formal/public setting without making yourself or anyone else uncomfortable/scared.” this is my comment from another article; i want to inform others that this is not a recognized LGBT identity. it should also go without saying, but when age regressing, it is NOT NORMAL to want to engage in sexual activity; especially with people who are PHYSICALLY children. even if they were regressing so they were mentally younger, that is not okay. if they experience sexual thoughts while regressing (just to reiterate; ESPECIALLY with actual kids involved) they need to seek help as this is predatory behavior and NOT normal for age regressors (this is of course for regressing to ages under 18). i hope this makes sense and clears some stuff up for non-LGBT and possibly neurotypical people who are concerned about this topic! take care! ❤

  9. oliver says:

    im transgender and gay and this still baffles me. i find it as simply a pedophiles excuse to get with children. never will a grown woman be socially or morally accepted to date or be friends with a 6 year old. i dont care about how stefoknee feels, she is still that of a grown human being. its so odd to me. she is not lgbtq.

  10. Jon says:

    There are expanded articles on this 6 year old nut job. Curiously he drives a snow plow in the winter. Not that a 6’ 3”, 300 pound, 6 year old girl can’t drive a snow plow, but where would a 6 year old get a driver’s license? If you’re going to be 6 years old when it’s convenient for you,, I don’t buy your BS.

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